Don't you love when you stumble upon a book that you can't put down? I just finished such a book - Sweet Life by Mia King. With rich characters, an intriguing plot and an unforgettable message, this book is going down on my favorites list.
The book's tag line sums it up best: "What if you got away from it all—and then it all got away from you?"
The main character, Marissa, is someone you come to love quickly. All of her quirks and vulnerabilities are exposed along with her strengths and good qualities. King does an impressive job of creating a well-rounded heroine.
As she follows her husband Paul from New York to his new job in Hawaii, (with daughter Pansy in tow), life begins to unravel. Instead of finding paradise, she loses her marriage...and herself.
King, however, takes us on an entertaining ride as we watch Marissa find herself once again, as well as what defines her and makes her truly happy.
One aspect I loved the most is that King, like me, is a homeschooling mom and weaves her experience seamlessly into the plot. Stereotypes are quietly exposed and explained away, much to my delight.
I also loved the setting...the beautiful state of Hawaii. I learned a lot about Hawaiian traditions, foods and more. As a bonus, recipes to many of the dishes talked about in the story can be found in the back of the book.
Check out this enticing promotional video and see if you can't wait to read it as much as I wanted to:
Recently, I had the opportunity to interview Mia King and I think her answers will give you good insight into the making of Sweet Life:
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1. Did the story of Marissa and Paul come to you through experience, or did you do research into the issue of a strained marriage? If the latter, how did you go about that?
The story of Marissa and Paul came to me as a result of moving to the Big Island. I noticed in the eight years that I've lived here that the island has a way of pushing you to look at your issues, ready or not. Many marriages and relationships get tested here.
For some reason living on the mainland seems to buy you extra time -- you can maintain status quo for a while. But if you move to the Big Island, look out -- if there is anything simmering under the surface of your marriage, well, it's going to come out.
Living here has definitely strengthened my own marriage, and for that I am forever grateful, but Pele and the island definitely make you work for it! ;-)
2. How does being a homeschooling mother influence your plot, if at all?
As a homeschooling parent, I struggled with finding my own definition of homeschooling and then defending it to friends and family who couldn't understand why I was homeschooling. By including it in my novels, I like to think that I'm mainstreaming the concept for more people, along with the truth that ANYBODY can homeschool. I would never had dreamed I would be homeschooling, but here I am, and I love it.
3. How do you find the time to craft such a brilliant novel while homeschooling?!
The ultimate compliment! My daughter is 7 1/2 and very smart, which helps, and my other two are still pre-K (well, one's less than 3 months so he's pre-pre-K!). I just write when I can, and work homeschool around my schedule as a family.
We're unconventional in that we have our own business as well and work weekends, so homeschooling gives us the freedom to spend time together and fit other things in. But some days I feel like I can't get anything done - homeschooling or writing, much less laundry or cleaning the bathroom - and I just try to give myself a break on those days.
4. Did you use to live in New York like your character Marissa? If so, what caused you to move to Hawaii?
I've been to New York a lot but never lived there. I did a lot of schooling on the East Coast, though, and wanted a character that would really experience a culture shock in moving to Hawaii. I've been fortunate enough to live in a lot of places so the move to Hawaii wasn't a big deal for me.
My husband and I were living in California before and came out on vacation when I was 5 months pregnant. We felt "the call" to come here, so we sold everything and did, two months later. We gave up our corporate jobs and my husband started a golf school, The Spirit of Golf Academy (www.spiritofgolfhawaii.com) and we both started writing. We've never had island fever and love being here, though we do miss family.
5. I love the painfully honest journey we get to take through Marissa's character, especially when she admits to faults such as looking down on the barista and the "hippy mom." What goes into defining your characters and their traits? Do you draw from experience, watch others, or something else?
The secondary characters and relationships are just as important to me as the primary ones. I love relationships and friendships that are borne from the unlikeliest of circumstances, and among the unlikeliest of people. People that Marissa never thought she'd become friends with, and yet they're the ones that help her deepen with herself and become a more authentic person.
I've had that happen in my own life, too: a woman who really bugged me moved next door to me and for three years I tried to move away, but couldn't! In the end, she became one of my dearest friends, and remains that way today.
6. What lessons/insights do you want your readers to come away with most after reading "Sweet Life?"
That life sometimes has greater things in store for us that we may not be able to see at first, and that it's never too late to change or uplevel your life.
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You can probably see why I'm also adding Mia King to my favorite authors list!
And Mia is offering a SWEET giveaway to readers here! Check out this glorious gift basket which one lucky winner will receive:
The basket is filled with goodies:
- ~one small gold box of Chocolate Dipped Original Shortbread Cookies
- ~one gold box of Kohala Brownie Assortment
- ~one petite box of Hawaiian Macadamia Nut Rocky Road
- ~one petite box of Combination (Dark and Milk) Chocolate Covered Macadamia Nuts
- ~three Dark Chocolate Dipped Original Shortbread cookies
- ~one Original Biscotti with Milk Chocolate waves
- ~one Original Biscotti with Dark Chocolate Waves
- ~one signed copy of GOOD THINGS
- ~one signed copy of SWEET LIFE
- ~an assortment of temporary hibiscus tattoos, tropical key chains, monogrammed GOOD THINGS and SWEET LIFE pens, and bookmarks
And since Mia and I have homeschooling in common, she offered to throw in extra homeschool-related goodies. In addition to the basket, the winner will receive a Hawaiian studies workbook and stickers!
To enter, simply leave a comment here letting me know which part of the interview interested you most and why (for example, "I love that Mia homeschools"). For a bonus entry, blog about this contest on your site with a link to this post, as well as to Mia's site. Then leave a separate comment here with your link so I can put you down for another entry.
Deadline to enter is 11:59 EST, Saturday, September 20. U.S. residents only, please. Further disclaimers as follows:
- 1. Must be 18 or older to participate.
- 2. Any prize or prize notification returned to Mia or Big Island Candies as undeliverable will result in the awarding of that prize to an alternate winner.
- 3. No purchase is necessary to win.
- 4. The gift baskets, books and promotional items are given in-kind and have no cash value.
- 5. Basket contents and style may vary slightly depending on availability.
- 6. This give-away contest is offered in good faith and in the spirit of fun and aloha. Mia King, miaking.com, Big Island Candies and Penguin Group USA, Inc. and So a Blonde Walks Into a Review assume no liability for damages associated with the gift basket or contents contained herein.
Good luck and happy reading!
202 comments
1 – 200 of 202 Newer› Newest»My favorite thing about the interview is that she's a homeschooler! Even better, she's a successful writer, home schooler, business owner and mom! That's what I wanna be when I grow up! Mia King is now my hero! Thank you for introducing me to her. I'd like to win this gift basket, but I"ll be buying the books as soon as I have money in my bank! Will put up another comment when I've got my post up!
OK here's my post with several links to your blog and Mia King's site.
http://www.besthomeschoolplace.com/?p=149
and you can contact me at christine at besthomeschoolplace dot com
My favorite part is Q#1: you *must* face your issues or they will head you off, eat you up and spit you out. Pressures and stress from marriage, parenting, job... everything... All must be explored and addressed.
A lifestyle that obfuscates or hides the core issues will just make it worse.
Seems the "Big Island" part helped expose and identify those issues.
I found it interesting that she never lived in NY but she based her book there.
I found this interesting:
I love relationships and friendships that are borne from the unlikeliest of circumstances, and among the unlikeliest of people.
Thank you!
janetfaye (at) gmail (dot) com
I blogged this giveaway.
http://luckygiveaways.blogspot.com/2008/09/sweet-life-interview-and-giveaway.html
Thank you!
janetfaye (at) gmail (dot) com
I thought it was funny how she detested her neighbor and then once she got to know her they became best friends.
my!Marissa sounds like one busy lady!ty 4 the great contest!:)
I found question five most interesting because those are faults that almost everyone can relate to.
hollyollyberry @ yahoo.com
Hi Ginny!
This Target card would be great for back to school shopping that's coming up soon!
My favorite part of the interview was how homeschooling had to be defended to her friends. thank you for the contest
I like the fact that she points out that when bad things happen, it's to make us ready for someting good or even better to occur in the future.
i like the home schooler part i 've always been interested in this
I think it's interesting that Mia has incorporated home schooling into her books. It's a subject lots of people are curious about and somehow it seems easier to understand in a story rather than trying to get info from a textbook on the subject.
I found it to be inspiring that both Mia and her husband realized the value in following your spirit and risking normalcy to follow your passion. So often we walk the line of "good enough" and envy those who have chosen not to. It's refreshing to see that risk can lead to reward, fiction or non-fiction.
I like that Mia discusses how she found her way to describe homeschooling to friends and family so that they would understand her choice.
I am intrigued about the idea that the Big Island breaks or makes a marriage. Considering so many make Hawaii their beginnings with their honeymoon.
smithpatty at comcast dot net
I was glad to hear she was a homeschooler but also she sounded human- normal- she has struggles
I love the bit on homeschooling. I have always wanted my daughter to be home schooled. Its rather interesting to see others who do it. anglesmr@gmail.com
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I loved the question where you lived in NY and moved to Hawaii. That's been my dream.
contact susan wiener, swiener1[at]tampabay.rr.com
Moving to Hawaii like that was really gutsy!
iluv2pray@gmail.com
I find it amazing that she is able to find time to write while home schooling, and doing everything else we mom's must do!
guysrose at aol dot com
I truly like the insights she gave at the end. Those are very inspiring. It really has me thinking about my own life!
Sometimes we can't see the "big picture" of what is destined for us because we are so worried about trivial daily matters. Her remark about our destinies is a good one and worth considering when we get bogged down in the details of daily life.
My favorite part about the interview is that you are a homeschooler and still able to be a successful author, mother, and business woman. Wow!
Just in case borsky_dre (at) yahoo (dot) com
That she homeschools as i do also.
Thank you so much for this giveaway. This book sounds wonderful. It's very interesting that in what I would think to be paradise, living on the big island can test marriages at times and makes you look at your issues. It's also amazing that a mom of three young children found the time to write this book. Talk about super woman. lol
Thanks so much for this giveaway.
Intestesting book, I like the fact that she home schools her kids too.
I so deserve this as a persoanl treat for a personal time out. I have been caregiving now for almost a year...I need this wonder basket as a treat ;-)
I like part 6 of the interview, because this is very true. Sometimes, when we're really in a bad point of our life, we often don't think about what God has in store for us. We often dwell on our problem(s). I've been there. We just have to be patient and trust in him.
This book sounds very interesting. Thanks for the chance!
good prize
Homeschooling part. VEry interesting.
angelina115@hotmail.com
I like that she home schools. My boys want me to, but I am afraid that they are already smarter than I am.
Homeschooling and writing - this sounds like one very organized lady!
I loved that they moved to Hawaii! I would love to move to a place like Hawaii or Ireland. But I'm not sure if I could get myself away from my family.
samsakara@twcny.rr.com
Christina - xristya@rock.com - I liked it that Mia noted in the interview that she wanted her character to experience culture shock (as most readers would, if they moved to Hawaii) so she gave her a NYC background. The book seems to be about geographical change inspiring other changes in the protagonist's life after daily complacencies in one part of the world are turned upside-down!
I really like the fact that she and her husband had the courage to follow their hearts and move to Hawaii.
When she talks about secondary characters and "looking down on the hippy mom". Go hippy moms!!
tvollowitz at aol dot com
So hard to choose, I love the fact that this homeschooling mom who found the time to write (I'd love to to find the time to do the same) also had the courage to follow her bliss with her husband to move to a place that strengthened her marraige.
I think its pretty cool how her neighbor got on her nerves and she embraced it and they eventually became friends. I have had a similar situation in my life before.
We are facing a move ourselves due to a job layoff and it immediately got me thinking about the issues we have here and if they will be replaced by new issues when we get there. Do different locations make a huge difference or not. Hmmm
I would have to agree with many and say the part about her homeschooling. I was homeschooled, and it definately grounded me, and prepared me more for life in the real world.
I love that she used NY as a setting in her book since Im a NY'er here!
num1twinkie at yahoo.com
The most interesting part to me was her response to the third question. Seeing how she juggles motherhood, household, home schooling, business, writing and time just for the family and manages to keep it all together ;)
ladyblue1112000[at]yahoo.com
I love how they sold everything, gave up their jobs and then started a golf school when they moved.
dcadmar at gmail dot com
I agree that you can change your life and it's never too late. I started college last year at 44. I quit an unfulfilling job, and I'm eating healthier and making better choices.
It's really cool theat homeschooling help the plot!
Carla
cpullum(at)yahoo(dot)com
her response to the third question, how she juggles everything
I like it when she explains about facing your issues.
I love how she is able to homeschool and write the novel. That couldn't have been an easy task.
hebert024 at aol dot com
Although our son now chose to go to High School, he was homeschooled for several years and it was the best thing we ever did...I love the fact that she homeschools and writes so beautifully. Thanks for great contest
I can really relate to the 'But some days I feel like I can't get anything done - homeschooling or writing, much less laundry or cleaning the bathroom - and I just try to give myself a break on those days.'. I just started selling my creations on etsy and I have those days, too.
=) melanie
http://melaniescrafts.blogspot.com
melanieadey at hotmail dot com
My favorite part about the interview is that she homeschools. I homeschooled my children for a few years and it was such a great experience!
Q#1: You *must* face your issues or they will head you off, eat you up and spit you out.
This was interesting!
I found the part about her and her husband leaving their corporate jobs, selling everything to follow their dreams by relocating to the islands inspirational.
I especially liked the recognition of geographical culture shock in her character's story. I used to work to recruit nurses for underserved populations, and although virtually all of them expected 'culture' shock, most of those from different (usually eastern urban) geographical areas, had a very difficult time with the differences in geography. For example, they did not realize that in some areas of the US, it is a 50-100 mile drive to the nearest movie theatre--and that is just one example.
clynsgatyahoo.com
I like the fact that it takes place in New York.
I love relationships and friendships that are borne from the unlikeliest of circumstances, and among the unlikeliest of people--since I moved to an apartment in a senor complex made many new friends that i would never have met otherwise.
comments@ptreskovich@hotmail.com
she is a homeschooler-takes place in NYC
The homeschooling aspect of the charachters live is quite intresting.
I like how Mia explains how different relationships have unlikely impacts on her characters.
I really found it interesting that a vacation to Hawaii sparked Mia's move and that they packed up and moved 2 months later, quitting their jobs and moving to live their own lives. Very cool!
My favorite part is about Hawaii and how Mia has incorporated home schooling into her books.
My favorite part was the fact that she has time to write at all. With homeschooling, her own business and family things, that is already alot.
walters123 [at] hotmail [dot] com
I liked the fact she found a friend in someone she considered an "enemy."
I like the Home schooling and that they moved to Hawaii! Mia really incorporated everything into a good book!
santhony0085@bellsouth.net
i like how she moved to hawaii, after hearing "the call"
My favorite part of the interview was how homeschooling was defended
Moving to Hawaii that was gutsy on her part
My favorite part was about how she moved to Hawaii feeling the "call". I still have my corporate job and I would love to go there again.
I like the fact shes able to homeschool,run a business,an write an still have time to find the beauty of the islands,amazing!
I enjoyed the moving to Hawaii part. I'd LOVE to move there or even just vacation there.
life will be sweet if i'm a winner
I like the life lesson in Sweet Life: "That life sometimes has greater things in store for us that we may not be able to see at first"
I like the reminder that sometimes we can, through our presumptions, miss out on people that we would otherwise embrace.
Her final insight gives me hope, as I Irkxfj'm going through something very similar right now.
I loved the reminder that as hard as confrontation is it is a must on life. Confront your problems head on!
ajcmeyer AT go DOT com
I found the whole interview interesting. I am a new yorker so, I like that the setting is in NY.
I found it interesting that the more laid back atmosphere of Hawaii makes people confront problems more than living on the mainland. Maybe there is more time to think?
I love the following quote from the interview because I'm sure that the same woman has lived next door to me for the past 25+ years---and somewhere along the way the very same thing happened to my feelings about her!
"... a woman who really bugged me moved next door to me and for three years I tried to move away, but couldn't! In the end, she became one of my dearest friends, and remains that way today."
I would love to Hawaii too,You go Girl
I really like the very last part of the interview where Mia is asked what lessons/insights she wants us to take away from this book and her answer was "That life sometimes has greater things in store for us that we may not be able to see at first, and that it's never too late to change or uplevel your life."
It just makes a lot of sense to me, everything and everyday is a suprise and you have to make the most of it. Thanks so much for such a great giveaway!
Eloise
furygirl3132[at]comcast[dot]net
I like how she balances writing and parenting.
I found it interesting that the Big Island "has a way of pushing you to look at your issues, ready or not." Great interview!
I liked the way that she interwove part of her life as a homeschooler into the plot of the book. Interesting that someone could learn more about homeschooling through a novel! Of course you are supposed to "write what you know", so that does make sense! Thanks for the giveaway!
Nancy
allibrary [at] aol [dot] com
She has found the secret to sweet balance!
Okay so here it is - I love to read about women and our situations and where we are in life and the crap we deal with and the inspirations we find and... well, I love the differences. I've chosen one way of life but I often wonder what it would have been like if I'd taken a different path. What if I moved with family members to the Big Island - how would it have affected me, and in what ways would it have made me a different woman? What if I had decided to have a baby with my ex - would I have been happier than I am now, and/or would he still have left me? It's so interesting and cathartic and empowering to be able to get a glimpse into someone else's life. What I enjoyed most about her interview was her candor and honestly. She makes you feel comfortable, like you're talking with a friend. I'm going to read her book, regardless if I win or not. Thanks for bringing this book to my attention!!!
I like that she's homeschooling and handling so many things as the same time. It's not easy raising a kid. I was homeschooled as well so I can definitely relate.
how true !!- you MUST face your issues or they will head you off, eat you up and spit you out.
and homeschooling is sue not an easy Job !
thanks :)
I love the idea that they lived in California and decided to pack up everything and make the move. That right there takes a lot of courage. Thank you so much!
judybrittle(at)aol(dot)com
"defending it to friends and family who couldn't understand why I was homeschooling", I was homeschooled and I know what she means so this is my fav part and I'd love to read the book!
kristilb19@yahoo.com
How great that someone that she initially didn't like ended up being one of her very good friends. Good reminder to be open minded toward potential friends.
the way you just up and moved to hawaii.
I liked her lesson to her readers.
eddiem1.1@dslextreme.com
I like the part about her finding friendships in unlikely people. I have found that in my own life also. My friends are very unique and not necessarily people that I would have thought I would like upon first meeting.
sweepmom@comcast.net
I loved the entire review and interview, and the fact that Mia homeschools and includes that in her stories is outstanding we need that, better than things like the ridiculous SNL skit I saw this weekend. We've been homeschooling 16 years and mom could use this treat :)
sassylucylootoo(at)yahoo(dot)com
I like the fact that it is never too late to start over.
I like that she cares about the secondary characters relationships.
bebemiqui82(at)yahoo(dot)com
I love that she homeschools (surprise!) and that her book has homeschooling in it! Now I reeeeally have to read this. Thanks so much for the interview!
Lindsey
ladyufshalott at yahoo.com
I find her opinion " the island has a way of pushing you to look at your issues, ready or not" interesting....And it makes me wonder why that is so? is it because the lifestyle is more relaxed and there's nothing to distract a couple from the problems they have in their relationships?
I love that she homeschool! We're thinking of it too :)
My favorite part of the interview was how homeschooling had to be defended to her friends since i have homeschoole dmy kids.
The fact that she is a dedicated Homeschooler was awesome!
I have always debated to be a homeschooling parent so I liked 2. How does being a homeschooling mother influence your plot, if at all?
herry123_us@live.com
I liked the portion of the interview where she indicates the lessons learned.
Homeschooling is so important. She is able to be organized enough to so organized that she can get everything done.
Lindad4 at cox dot net
I enjoy how her love of Hawaii comes shining through in the interview!
"As a homeschooling parent, I struggled with finding my own definition of homeschooling and then defending it to friends and family who couldn't understand why I was homeschooling."
A woman who understands... ;-)
I have some negative ideas about homeschooling. I'd definitely be interested to see how it works with the plotline as a beneficial thing.
i like how the author experienced a culture shock from east coast to hawaii. i can relate to this myself - moving from canada to new york and the differences. thanks for the giveaway!
THANK YOU
As a teacher I found the home schooling article interesting. Thanks! senekers@comcast.net
I think what I like best about the interview is that she delves into all avenues of questioning, she is able to get so much out of her questions. Icetwofire[at]aol[dot]com
I can't believe she has 3 kids and one only a couple months old.
I find the fact that she wrote the story of Marissa and Paul as a result of here moving to the Big island awesome!
stephaniegrant@live.com
This comment: That life sometimes has greater things in store for us that we may not be able to see at first, and that it's never too late to change or uplevel your life.
I am moving out of my home and it is quite an upheaval but at the same time I agree with the author. I can't count the number of times that my life has changed over the years. Nothing stays the same, does it?
Her husband runs a golf academy
jceko77@yahoo.com
face your issues or they will head you off, eat you up and spit you out. Pressures and stress from marriage
The observation about how marriages are tested in Hawaii. Lpwilmer@aol.com
I love how she and her faily just up and moved to Hawaii! Very inspiring!
urchiken at gmail dot com
I love how she mentioned that if there is something simmering underneath in your marriage, it will find a way out. I realize she mentioned that the issues come out when moving to the Big Island, but I think that can be true of any marriage.
ryan57564@yahoo.com
I love her story about the woman who she disliked but eventually became a good friend. It just shows the importance of second chances!
oreo89 [at] gmail [dot] com
I find it interesting that they up and sold everything and moved to California. That would be a great experience!
the homeschool fact s cool cause she does a lot of stuff
petteytiffay@yahoo.com
Interesting input on homeschooling, divorce, and coming to grips with life after divorce.
I like that in the interview she stated that its never too late to change or uplevel your life, which can be scarey at times
tiramisu392 (at) yahoo.com
I like that she mentioned how a change of location can really change a marriage too.
jennem22 at yahoo dot com
I think the best part is about them leaving their corporate jobs, selling everything to follow their dreams because something as beautiful as that you don't see much of in the land ruled by $$$.
Thank you for the great giveaway! :)
The setting and characters sound wonderful!
I like how the marriages are tested in the islands...everything rises to the surface. Sounds like a really great read!
aarmatthews at yahoo dot com
thank you for having this! I like a few things - how they sold everything to follow their dreams and how their marriage was tested. this was all fantastic and something we can all learn from. Thank you!
tatertot374@sbcglobal.net
i love how she balanced homeschooling and writing the novel and the fact that she says anyone can homeschool I am just starting and love the encouragement
While I know it has been said, I love that Mia homeschools. I did not know this and to hear of wonderful people like her doing it makes me feel like I made the right choice in home schooling my child.
my favorite part is where she's talking about having to face your issues
I thought that it was interesting how she originally hated her neighbor but once she got to know her they became best friends. That should show us one reason why we should never "judge a book by it's cover" ... you can never really know if you truly like someone until you get to know them.
i like that she really takes the story line of the secondary characters seriously, and doesn't just throw them in for fill.
purehrt555(at)yahoo(dot)com
I found it so exciting that she and her hubby quit their jobs, sold everything and moved! So adventurous! thanks, justicecw@hotmail.com
I like what she says about facing your issues.
How does being a homeschooling mother influence your plot, if at all? == since I am new to homeschooling (This is our first years) - that part of the interview intrigued me most!
I when she talked about her reason for moving to Hawaii. This is somewhat relevant to me since people keep telling me to mover there since I loved it and I have a friend who lives there.
Thanks!
carissaad at aol dot com
I liked the part about initially not liking someone but then looking deeper and finding out you do like them, just like your neighbor! I've definately had that happen to me!
The part about facing your issue, Giving up everything to move to Hawaii. I have been there done that moved to Florida and again to West Virgina. I would love to read this book and know I would not put it down until I finished it. Then my sister and 2 daughters would read it. We share.
Two things intrigued me -- one, the part about how living on the Big Island changes people and tests them in unique ways. The other was the story about the annoying neighbor who became her dear friend. What a tease to offer just those tiny little hints of something that sounds fascinating. Perhaps I'll gain a little more insight from the novel.
I liked how she said it's never to late to change your life!
doot65{at}comcast[dot]net
Elizabeth
I also like the fact that she points out that when bad things happen.
erma.hurtt@sbcglobal.net
I love her "life lesson/insight" because it is absolutely true that it is never too late to change. You CAN teach an old dog new tricks! But you must always face life and its many challenges with your eyes and, more importantly, your mind wide open. Thanks for the chance to win your great giveaway!
proudyaya04 {at} yahoo {dot} com
I love Target and would love to win a gift card so I could do some shopping.
I like the discussion about homeschooling. It reminds me of when my dad was alive, he kept encouraging me to homeschool, but I don't think I could do it. Now, a few years later, I keep thinking about it again, I gotta find out more about it.
I was really interested to hear how and why she made the move to Hawaii. I have always had a desire to move to the "Big Island" but it seems so far away. Thanks for the great contest!
My favorite thing about the interview is that she's a homeschooler! Even better, she's a successful writer, home schooler, business owner and mom! Thanks!!
Love the bravery and complexity
gkstratos@yahoo.com
I like to hear about where she lived in Hawaii. Never been there. She is about to do so much as a writer and home schooler and many other things.
I love the fact she just moved to Hawaii and that helped her to write this book
weblynx@hotmail.com
I kind of wonder how living in Hawaii can put a strain on a relationship more then say living elsewhere. Not sure I follow that train of thought
I like when she speaks of not having time. I think everyone can relate to that.
My favorite part of the interview was, "We felt "the call" to come here, so we sold everything and did, two months later. We gave up our corporate jobs". I would love to give in to the "the call". I have quit my corporate job and have been self employed for the past three year and I moved to a big city late last year but the culture shock was too much and I went back to my small town after a few months. I know how hard it is to move to a place you are unfamiliar with. I hope to move to New York City some day but I have to get over some personal issues first. And find a better paying job;)
I find it interesting that all of her characters are important to her, not just the main ones, thank you!
I so deserve this as a persoanl treat for a personal time out
Confrontation as a part of life, is an interesting thought.
theyyyguy@yahoo.com
I truly enjoyed your insightful interview with Mia. I was intrigued throughout the interview and the part that I like the most because I too can identify with what she said is the part where Mia talks about how she defines her characters and their traits. She states that she feels relationships and friendships that are borne from the unlikeliest of circumstances, and among the unlikeliest of people. People that Marissa never thought she'd become friends with, and yet they're the ones that help her deepen with herself and become a more authentic person. I have found this to be true in several of my own personal relationships with people that are now my friends and in my life!
joannaonthelake@gmail.com
I loved that she said this, "I love relationships and friendships that are borne from the unlikeliest of circumstances, and among the unlikeliest of people. People that Marissa never thought she'd become friends with, and yet they're the ones that help her deepen with herself and become a more authentic person. "
I think that would make for a more interesting, and perhaps even more believable, plot twist, and the concept of "bad" turning "good" fascinates me.
I found this interesting: how they felt "the call" and followed through with it by moving to Hawaii.
annemarie562000(at)yahoo(dot)com
This is all very interesting!
I was laughing and nodding reading her response about unlikely relationships and the neighbor she couldn't get rid of, but ended up being good friends with! Been there - done that! :)
I liked the part of the interview about finding unlikely friends in unlikely places.
i like her last answer- "that sometimes life has greater things in store for us that we may not be able to see at first,and that its never too late to change or uplevel your life."
RachelMontoya@comcast.net
I like when she says "The secondary characters and relationships are just as important to me as the primary ones." because this isn't true of many authors!
i love the lesson she tells us the book will bring!
"That life sometimes has greater things in store for us that we may not be able to see at first, and that it's never too late to change or uplevel your life."
this gives me hope! i really need this kind of thinking in my life right now, as i am going through some hard times.
i was really interested about how she learned all those things about Hawaiian culture when she moved there, how exciting!
I found it quite interesting to read that she homeschools, has two even younger children, keeps a house, runs a business, and writes! I've been a stay at home mom for 6 years and I honestly can't imagine how she does it. I think I'm just not that motivated!
Definitely- the part about moving to Hawaii- a lifelong dream of mine.
froggypartyof2@aol.com
wow! that's so amazing that she wanted to movie to she and you did!
she did not like her neighbor, now their friends
I like how honest she is in the interview, and speaks openly about how her own marriage was tested just like Marissa's.
My favorite part of the interview was when she was talking anout her neighbors how at first she detested them but later liked them. I have met a lot of wonderful friends who started out as neighbors who I didn't know at first and hadsome doubts about.
I love that she's a homeschooler :)
I love it that she and her husband just decided on a whim to move to Hawaii.
As a fellow homeschooler, I was interested in her comments about working homeschooling around her writing and other work. It really does provide flexibility and allows a lot more time with your kids.
I like question one and question five, the ones about relationships, with her husband and then about her secondary characters.
I LOVE that this book has recipes.
verdere at g mail dot com
I am really attracted to books that subtly expose stereotypes and teach us about ourselves.
i like the comment about That life sometimes has greater things in store for us that we may not be able to see at first..this is so true and sometimes they are bad things..but we have to deal day by day and move forward and try to make it better the best we can
New York then she flies out to Hawaii, the best of both worlds. I'm jealous!!! Winning at least would make me feel better!
I loved it when she points out that when bad things happen it's to make us ready for something good or even better to occur in the future. Thats an awesome way to look at things.
I loved this:
"That life sometimes has greater things in store for us that we may not be able to see at first, and that it's never too late to change or uplevel your life."
kcutting@townisp.com
I found it was interesting that she was home schooling her daughter and TRULY doing the best possible job yet she still ended up explaining it to her friends.
I find it interesting not only does she write, she homeschools and has 3 children, two of which are under 5..wowsers...
I love her philosophy, that life sometimes has things in store for us that we may not be able to see at first. I've found that to be very true!!
I liked the fact that she realized you have to give more time to forming relationships and the girl she didn't like became one of her best friends- it takes time- and in this busy world - we don't take "Time" for alot of things!
My favorite part was the fact that Mia "is offering a SWEET giveaway to readers here". I have live on the east coast (not New York), have never been to Hawaii, and don't homeschool. The interview doesn't say Mia loves chocolate, but from her choice of a prize, I would say she knows how to pick great prizes even if she isn't a chocoholic!
I thought it was interesting to hear a story from a homeschool mom about a homeschool mom. vidomich(at)yahoo(dot)com
very impressive that she is such a busy lady- home schooling, owning a business, and has time to write! wow
I understand what she is talking about when she was discussing how living on the Big Island makes you see things in a different light than on the mainland. I think it's the same way as people living in rural areas view things as opposed to city dwellers. In the city, life is so fast paced and you don't have the time to really think and work on problems. In a rural area, life is much more laid back. You're brought back to a simpler time and reflection helps you to see things more clearly and time is not such a restraint.
LuckyTJG@cs.com I just left the post by anonymous about city life versus rural life.
Of course I love that she homeschools!
I found it interesting that she never lived in NY but she based her book there.Also that she somehow made homeshcooling into the plot!
I found it interesting that she found a friend in the neighbor she disliked previously.
I like how she balances writing and parenting/homeschooling. She also admits that she has days when she just can't do any of it!
Thank you for the opportunity to win!
There were a couple of things in the interview that really struck home with me. The first was that living in Hawaii isn't the paradise that we all believe it to be. I always tended to believe that it would be an endless vacation but logically I know that isn't true.
The second part was the homeschooling. My children are all out of school but I would never have attempted to home school any of them. I have a good friend who does home school and I constantly admire her for it.
I like the part where she homeschooling and also writing.
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